Monday, November 15, 2010
SEMAK SAMUN...
Friday, September 10, 2010
THAT SMILE
Sunday, August 29, 2010
INSTALLING LOVE ON THE HUMAN COMPUTER
Tech Support:
Yes, how can I help you?
Customer:
Well, after much consideration, I've decided to install Love. Can you guide me through the process?
Tech Support:
Yes. I can help you. Are you ready to proceed?
Customer:
Well, I'm not very technical, but I think I'm ready. What do I do first?
Tech Support:
The first step is to open your Heart. Have you located your Heart?
Customer:
Yes, but there are several other programs running now. Is it okay to install Love while they are running?
Tech Support:
What programs are running ?
Customer:
Let's see, I have Past Hurt, Low Self-Esteem, Grudge and Resentment running right now.
Tech Support:
No problem, Love will gradually erase Past Hurt from your current operating system. It may remain in your permanent memory but it will no longer disrupt other programs. Love will eventually override Low Self-Esteem with a module of its own called High Self-Esteem. However,you have to completely turn off Grudge and Resentment. Those programs prevent Love from being properly installed. Can you turn those off?
Customer:
I don't know how to turn them off. Can you tell me how?
Tech Support:
With pleasure. Go to your start menu and invoke Forgiveness. Do this as many times as necessary until Grudge and Resentment have been completely erased.
Customer:
Okay, done! Love has started installing itself. Is that normal?
Tech Support:
Yes, but remember that you have only the base program. You need to begin connecting to other Hearts in order to get the upgrades.
Customer:
Oops! I have an error message already. It says, "Error - Program not run on external components." What should I do?
Tech Support:
Don't worry. It means that the Love program is set up to run on Internal Hearts, but has not yet been run on your Heart. In non-technical terms, it simply means you have to Love yourself before you can Love others.
Customer:
So, what should I do?
Tech Support:
Pull down Self-Acceptance; then click on the following files: Forgive-Self; Realize Your Worth; and Acknowledge your Limitations.
Customer:
Okay, done.
Tech Support:
Now, copy them to the "My Heart" directory. The system will overwrite any conflicting files and begin patching faulty programming. Also, you need to delete Verbose Self-Criticism from all directories and empty your Recycle Bin to make sure it is completely gone and never comes back.
Customer:
Got it. Hey! My heart is filling up with new files. Smile is playing on my monitor and Peace and Contentment are copying themselves all over My Heart. Is this normal?
Tech Support:
Sometimes. For others it takes awhile, but eventually everything gets it at the proper time. So Love is installed and running. One more thing before we hang up. Love is Freeware. Be sure to give it and its various modules to everyone you meet. They will in turn share it with others and return some cool modules back to you.
Customer:
Thank you
Tech Support:
You're Welcome, Anytime.
Now, isn't this amazing?
Saturday, August 28, 2010
MANDI HADAS
Telah dipastikan bahawa terdapat terlalu ramai dari kita yang tidak sah mandi wajibnya...saya kongsikan artikel ini untuk semuanya...sila share atau copy di blog masing-masing..terima kasih-from azarudin bocheh
Assalamualaikum,
Berkongsi sedikit ilmu… dari JAKIM.
Mandi wajib yg betul…..
Mandi wajib merupakan perkataan yang mudah disebut, tetapi jangan terkejut jika dikatakan banyak umat Islam di tanahair kita yang tidak sah mandi wajibnya kerana tidak melakukannya dengan betul.
Untuk melakukan mandi wajib yang betul, seseorang itu tidak boleh melakukannya dengan hanya mandi secara berdiri atau duduk mencangkung sahaja. Sebaliknya, ia mesti dilakukan dalam kedua2 keadaan bagi membolehkan seseorang itu meratakan air ke seluruh anggota badannya yang zahir.
Penolong Pengarah Bahagian Dakwah, Jabatan Kemajuan Islam Malaysia (JAKIM), Uztaz Haji Mat Jais Kamos, 49, menegaskan, bagaimanapun, berdasarkan pengalamannya sebagai bekas kadi di Pejabat Agama Islam Gombak Timur dan penceramah, didapati banyak umat Islam yang tidak mengetahui perkara ini.
“Akibatnya, mandi majibnya menjadi tidak sah kerana tidak memenuhi salah satu rukun mandi wajib iaitu meratakan air keseluruh anggota badan yang zahir. Apabila mandi wajib tidak sah, ibadat yang dilakukan oleh seseorang itu juga turut tidak sah. Itulah akibatnya jika tidak melakukan mandi wajib dengan betul,” tegas beliau ketika ditemui di rumahnya di Taman Sri Keramat Kuala Lumpur .
Mandi wajib yang juga sebagai mandi junub atau janabah tidak boleh dipandang ringan oleh umat islam. Setiap orang yang mlakukannya mestilah mengetahui dan memenuhi rukun2nya. Jika tidak mandi wajib seseorang itu tidak akan sah.
Rukun mandi wajib ada 3 perkara. Pertama, niat. Kedua , menghilangkan najis di badan.Ketiga , meratakan air keseluruh anggota badan yang zahir.
Niat mandi wajib: “Sahaja aku mengangkat hasar besar kerana Allah Taala.”
Atau ” Sahaja aku mandi wajib kerana Allah Taala.”
Niat itu di dalam hati dan ia hendaklah disertakan ketika air sampai ke mana2 bahagian anggota badan.
Bagi perempuan yang habis haid, niat mandi wajib ialah: ” Sahaja aku mengangkat hadas haid kerana Allah Taala.” Manakala bagi perempuan yang habis nifas, niat mandi wajibnya ialah: ” Sahaja aku mengangkat hadas nifas kerana Allah Taala”.
Niat itu jika dilambatkan atau ketika seseorang itu memulakannya selepas dia telah membasuh salah 1 anggota badannya akan menjadikan mandi wajibnya tidak sah. Oleh itu dia mestilah memulakan kembali niatnya ketika dia mula menyampaikan air keseluruh anggota badannya. Sekiranya dia berniat sebelum air sampai ke badan, niat itu juga tidak sah. Oleh itu mandi wajibnya tidak sah.
Mengenai rukun mandi wajib yang ke2, iaitu menghilangkan najis yang ada pada badan , menurut Ustaz Haji Mat Jais, menurut Imam Nawawi, jika kita ada najis di badan, najis itu boleh dibasuh serentak dengan mandi wajib. Ertinya membasuh najis dengan mandi itu boleh disekalikan.
Sementara rukun mandi wajib yang ke3, iaitu meratakan air ke seluruh anggota badan yang zahir , meliputi kulit, rambut dan bulu yang ada di badan, sama ada bulu2 yang jarang atau lebat. Jika rambut seseorang itu ditocang atau disanggul, sekiranya tidak sampai air ke dalamnya, tocang atau sanggul itu wajiblah dibuka. Bulu2 dalam lubang hidung pula, tidak wajib dibasuh kerana dianggap batin. Tetapi sekiranya, bulu2 di dalam hidung itu bernajis, ia wajiblah dibasuh.
Mengenai kuku pula, jika di dalam kuku ada kotoran yg boleh menghalang sampai air ke badan khususnya di bahagian bawah kuku, kotoran itu wajiblah dibuang. Membuang kotoran di dalam kuku itu pula boleh dilakukan ketika sedang mandi.
Tentang rambut yg diwarnakan pula selain inai, inilah yang merumitnya. Sebenarnya jika rambut seseorang itu diwarnakan dengan pewarna selain inai, mandi wajib seseorang itu tidak sah. Oleh itu, seseorang yang mewarnakan rambutnya dengan pewarna selain inai, jika dia hendak mandi wajib, dia mestilah membuang pewarna pada rambutnya terlebih dahulu. Tetapi untuk membuang pewarna itu pula bagaimana?..
Inilah yang rumitnya. Sedangkan pewarna pada rambut itu sebenarnya tidak boleh dibuang begitu mudah.
Yang menyebabkan mandi wajib orang yang menggunakan pewarna pada rambutnya tidak sah kerana pewarna itu akan menyalut rambutnya yang menghalang air sampai ke rambut. Ini berbeza dengan inai. Inai sebenarnya akan meresap ke rambut, tetapi pewarna pula akan menyalut rambut menyebabkan air terhalang ke rambut.
Tetapi dalam hal ini, jangan pula ada yang salah faham. Sebenarnya pewarna itu jika dikeluarkan sijil halal oleh JAKIM dan sekiranya pewarna itu tidak bernajis, bukanlah bermaksud menjadi tidak sah. Dalam hal ini, sukalah saya menyatakan bahawa sembahyang dan mandi wajib itu berbeza. Jadi, mestilah dipandang dari sudut yg berbeza.
Dalam hal ini juga, sukalah saya menyatakan, huraian mengenai rukun mandi wajib seperti yang telah saya nyatakan ini adalah merupakan perbezaan sah atau tidak mandi wajib. Jadi, ia perlulah diberikan perhatian yang lebih oleh umat Islam.
Mengenai sebab2 seseorang itu wajib mandi wajib pula, Ustaz Haji Mat Jais menegaskan, sebab2nya terdiri daripada 6 sebab. 3 sebab melibatkan lelaki dan perempuan iaitu kerana bersetubuh walaupun tidak keluar air mani, keluar air mani dan mati. Manakala 3 sebab lagi hanya melibatkan kaum perempuan sahaja, iaitu keluar darah haid, nifas dan melahirkan anak(wiladah) .
Mandi wajib boleh dilakukan di mana2 dengan menggunakan air mutlak sama ada air telaga, air paip, sungai laut dan tasik.
Bagi pasangan suami isteri yang bersetubuh pula, mereka tidak semestinya mandi selepas bersetubuh, tetapi diwajibkan mandi ketika ingin beribadat.
Selepas bersetubuh pula, jika ia dilakukan pada waktu malam, jika tidak mahu mandi wajib, seelok2nya ambillah wuduk sebelum tidur itu adalah sunat, manakala tidak berwuduk sebelum tidur adalah makruh.
Panduan Tambahan
1. Agar wajah selalu segar, berseri-seri dan cantik, cucilah minima 5 kali sehari dengan air wudhu. Jangan langsung dikeringkan, biarkan menitis dan kering sendiri. Lalu ambillah sajadah, shalat, berdzikir, dan berdo’a.
2. Untuk menghilangkan stress, perbanyaklah ‘olahraga’. Cukup dengan memperbanyakkan solat. Ketika solat, kita mengerakkan seluruh tubuh. Lalu berkonsultasilah pada Allah SWT dengan dzikir dan do’a.
3. Untuk pelembab, agar awet muda, gunakanlah senyuman. Tidak hanya di bibir tapi juga di hati. Jangan lupa bisikkan ‘kata kunci’, “Allahuma Kamma Hassanta Khalqii Fahassin Khuluqii” (Ya Allah sebagaimana engkau telah memperindah kejadianku, maka perindah pula akhlaqku).
(HR Ahmad).- ( DOA TENGOK CERMIN ).
4. Untuk punya bibir cantik, bisikkan kalimat-kalimat Allah, tidak berbohong atau menyakiti hati orang lain, tidak menyombongkan diri atau takbur.
5. Agar tubuh langsing, mulus, diet yang teratur dengan berpuasa seminggu 2 kali, Isnin dan Khamis. Jika kuat, lebih bagus lagi puasa Nabi Daud AS i.e. selang satu hari. Makanlah makanan halal, perbanyak sayuran, buah-buahan, dan air putih.
6. Untuk mengembangkan diri, sebarkan salam dan sapaan. Dengan demikian kita akan banyak dikenal dan disayangi.
Rahsia 13
Inilah dia rahsia as-solat, sebagai peringatan bagi yang sudah tahu atau panduan bagi yang baru tahu……
1. Niat Sembahyang Sebenarnya memeliharakan taubat kita dari dunia dan akhirat.
2. Berdiri Betul Fadilatnya, ketika mati dapat meluaskan tempat kita di dalam kubur.
3. Takbir-ratul Ihram Fadilatnya, sebagai pelita yang menerangi kita di dalam kubur.
4. Fatihah Sebagai pakaian yang indah-indah di dalam kubur.
5. Ruqu’ Sebagai tikar kita di dalam kubur.
6. I’tidal Akan memberi minuman air dari telaga al-kautsar ketika di dalam kubur.
7. Sujud Memagar kita ketika menyeberangi titian SIRATUL-MUSTAQIM.
8. Duduk antara 2 Sujud Akan menaung panji-panji nabi kita di dalam kubur.
9. Duduk antara 2 Sujud (akhir) Menjadi kenderaan ketika kita di padang Mahsyar.
10.Tahhiyat Akhir Sebagai penjawab bagi soalan yang dikemukakan oleh Munkar & Nankir di dalam kubur.
11.Selawat Nabi Sebagai pendinding api neraka di dalam kubur.
12.Salam Memelihara kita di dalam kubur.
13.Tertib Akan pertemuan kita dengan Allah S.W.T.
“Sampaikanlah pesanku biarpun satu ayat…” Sebaik-baik manusia itu adalah mereka yang memberi manafa’at kepada manusia lain…
Monday, August 16, 2010
AKU DEMAM :(
Sungguh tak syoknya sakit ini...huhu.. selera makan pun terbantut.. makanya akan mengundang lagi 1 penyakit- gestrik!.. apa pun masuk dalam mulut, semua terasa pahit! tak selera! tapi mak dah masakkan bubur untuk anaknya yang terchenta yang tengah sakit ni..kena jugak la makan...kesian mak penat-penat masak..
Bersyukur aku sebab dalam keadaan aku yang demam ni masih ada mak yang masih setia disisi, mengambil berat dan peduli hal aku.. (tumpang manja2 kejap ye mak..walaupun anakmu ni dah besar panjang dah boleh jadi mak budak dah ponnn..hehe ) Erm dah memang lumrah agaknya, orang sakit ni kalau ada orang jaga dan temankan, sekurang-kurangnya ringan sikit rasa sakit tu.. Terima kasih Mak..jasamu memang tak terbalas.. Ya allah bantulah hambamu ini mengatasi rasa pakej sakit demam dan rasa tak best ini ya allah... oh ya, doa untuk mak sekali..ya allah.. semoga ibuku sentiasa sihat dan gembira selalu..amin... ;)
Sabar la Lina...kan orang ada berkata, sakit-sakit ringan ni menghapuskan dosa2 kecik..sabar la lina..redha lah.. ujian allah ni.... Esok sembuh la tuh.. Mudah2an..amin...
Thursday, August 12, 2010
KELEBIHAN SOLAT TARAWIH
1. Keutamaan malam pertama : Keluar dosa-dosa orang mukmin pada malam pertama sepertimana ia baru dilahirkan, mendapat keampunan dari Allah.
2. Keutamaan malam kedua : Diampunkan dosa-dosa orang mukmin yang sembahyang tarawih serta kedua ibubapanya (sekiranya mereka orang beriman).
3. Keutamaan malam ketiga : Berseru Malaikat di bawah ‘Arasy’ supaya kami meneruskan sembahyang tarawih terus-menerus semoga Allah mengampunkan dosa engkau.
4. Keutamaan malam keempat : Memperolehi pahala ia sebagaimana pahala orang-orang yang membaca kitab-kitab Taurat, Zabur, Injil dan Al-Quran.
5. Keutamaan malam kelima : Allah kurniakan baginya pahala seumpama orang sembahyang di Masjidilharam, Masjid Madinah dan Masjidil Aqsa.
6. Keutamaan malam keenam : Allah kurniakan pahala kepadanya pahala Malaikat-malaikat yang tawaf di Baitul Ma’mur (70 ribu malaikat sekali tawaf), serta setiap batu-batu dan tanah-tanah mendoakan supaya Allah mengampunkan dosa-dosa orang yang mengerjakan sembahyang tarawih pada malam ini.
7. Keutamaan malam ketujuh : Seolah-olah ia dapat bertemu dengan Nabi Musa serta menolong Nabi ‘Alaihissalam menentang musuh ketatnya Fi’raun dan Hamman.
8. Keutamaan malam kedelapan : Allah mengurniakan pahala orang sembahyang tarawih sepertimana yang telah dikurniakan kepada Nabi Allah Ibrahim ‘Alaihissalam.
9. Keutamaan malam kesembilan : Allah kurniakan pahala dan dinaikkan mutu ibadat hambanya seperti Nabi Muhamad S.A.W.
10. Keutamaan malam kesepuluh : Allah Subhanahuwata’ala mengurniakan kepadanya kebaikan di dunia dan akhirat.
11. Keutamaan malam kesebelas : Keluar ia daripada dunia (mati) bersih daripada dosa seperti ia baharu dilahirkan.
12. Keutamaan malam kedua belas : Datang ia pada hari Qiamat dengan muka yang bercahaya (cahaya ibadatnya).
13. Keutamaan malam ketiga belas : Datang ia pada hari Qiamat dalam aman sentosa daripada tiap-tiap kejahatan dan keburukan.
14. Keutamaan malam keempat belas : Datang Malaikat menyaksikan ia bersembahyang tarawih, serta Allah tiada menyesatkannya pada hari Qiamat.
15. Keutamaan malam kelima belas : Semua Malaikat yang menanggung ‘Arasy, Kursi, berselawat dan mendoakan supaya Allah mengampunkan.
16. Keutamaan malam keenam belas : Allahsubhanahuwata’ala tuliskan baginya terlepas daripada neraka dan dimasukkan ke dalam Syurga.
17. Keutamaan malam ketujuh belas : Allah kurniakan orang yang bertarawih pahalanya pada malam ini sebanyak pahala Nabi-Nabi.
18. Keutamaan malam kedelapan belas : Seru Malaikat: Hai hamba Allah sesungguhnya Allah telah redha kepada engkau dan ibubapa engkau (yang masih hidup atau mati).
19. Keutamaan malam kesembilan belas : Allah Subhanahuwataala tinggikan darjatnya di dalam Syurga Firdaus.
20. Keutamaan malam kedua puluh : Allah kurniakan kepadanya pahala sekalian orang yang mati syahid dan orang-orang solihin.
21. Keutamaan malam kedua puluh satu : Allah binakan sebuah istana dalam Syurga daripada nur.
22. Keutamaan malam kedua puluh dua : Datang ia pada hari Qiamat aman daripada tiap-tiap dukacita dan kerisauan (tidaklah dalam keadaan huru-hara di Padang Mahsyar).
23. Keutamaan malam kedua puluh tiga : Allah subhanahuwataala binakan kepadanya sebuah bandar di dalam Syurga daripada nur.
24. Keutamaan malam kedua puluh empat : Allah buka peluang 24 doa yang mustajab bagi orang bertarawih malam ini, (elok sekali berdoa ketika dalam sujud).
25. Keutamaan malam kedua puluh lima : Allah Taala angkatkan daripadanya siksa kubur.
26. Keutamaan malam kedua puluh enam : Allah kurniakan kepada orang bertarawih pahala pada malam ini seumpama 40 tahun ibadat.
27. Keutamaan malam kedua puluh tujuh : Allah kurniakan orang bertarawih pada malam ini ketangkasan melintas atas titian Sirotolmustaqim seperti kilat menyambar.
28. Keutamaan malam kedua puluh delapan : Allah Subhanahuwataala kurniakan kepadanya pahala 1000 darjat di akhirat.
29. Keutamaan malam kedua puluh sembilan : Allah Subhanahuwataala kurniakan kepadanya pahala 1000 kali haji yang mabrur.
30. Keutamaan malam ketiga puluh : Allah Subhanahuwataala beri penghormatan kepada orang bertarawih pada malam terakhir ini yang teristimewa sekali, lalu berfirman: “Hai hambaKu: Makanlah segala jenis buah-buahan yang engkau ingini hendak makan di dalam syurga, dan mandilah engkau daripada air syurga yang bernama Salsabila, serta minumlah air daripada telaga yang dikurniakan kepada Nabi Muhammad S.A.W. yang bernama ‘Al-Kauthar'.
Sunday, August 8, 2010
LOVE AND LIFE
Forget the people in the past and thank them for hurting you,
which led you to love the people you have right now.
When you love someone,
you’ll do crazy things you can’t explain,
you’ll deny the truth and believe in lies.
When you love someone,
you sacrifice, give everything you've got and don’t think twice.
You risk it all no matter what.
Everything in life is temporary because everything changes.
That is why it takes courage to love,
knowing it might end anytime…
having faith will make it last.
Friends are not the one who laugh when you laugh and cry when you cry.
They are the ones who make you laugh and stop you from crying.
Love is the feeling we fall in and out of,
and every time we fall off,
we learn to hold on tighter…
hoping that next time, we may never have to let go.
They say when love knocks at your door, open it.
But do you know that sometimes love enters through the back door,
and before you begin to notice it, it’s on it’s way out.
Have you ever loved only to let it go?..
Have you ever hated someone and loved him or her so?..
Have you ever missed someone so bad it made you cry?..
Have you ever seen someone left alone without knowing why? ..
True: Lucky is the man who wins the first love of a woman
but luckier is the woman who wins the last love of a man.
Love is not the right word to say when you feel guilty
nor the right word to say when you like a person
but love really matters when we share our thoughts, our minds, and our hearts…
Life has a way of changing things but not the joy that friendship brings,
for friendship is like the shining moon,
makes each night a brighter one.
Love is not for beauty or color of the skin,
but for a heart that is loyal within,
for beauty fades and the skin would grow old,
but a heart that is loyal will never turn cold.
If someone hurts you, betrays you, or breaks your heart,
forgive them for they have helped you learn about trust
and the importance of being cautious to whom you open your heart.
A love is easy to feel, so hard to explain;
so easy to get, so hard to let go;
so easy to spell, so hard to define…
and yet everyone is still taking the risk.
That’s love !
We are all a little weird and life’s a little weird,
and when we find someone whose weirdness is compatible with ours,
we join up with them and fall in love in mutual weirdness and call it LOVE!
Never be afraid to fall in love.
It may hurt a lot,
it may give you aches and pain,
but if you don’t follow your heart;
in the end you will cry even more
for not giving love a chance.
Don’t run ahead of God.
Let Him direct your steps.
He has plans and He has His time.
God’s clock is never one minute early
nor one minute late.
It's always strikes right on time.
If someone loves you, love them back,
not only because they love you,
but also because they are teaching you to love
and opening your heart and eyes to things you have never seen or felt without them.
The past is meant to be used as a tool for the future.
Bad experiences indeed make you bitter
but the lessons learned should make you better.
On letting go:
it hurts to see someone you love happy with somebody else;
but wouldn’t it hurt you more to see that person unhappy…with you?
When you find arms that will hold you at your weakest,
eyes that will see you at your ugliest,
lips that will kiss you in both instances,
and a heart that will love you at your worst,
then you have found true love.
Someday, someone might come into your life
and love you in a way you always wanted.
If your someday was yesterday.. LEARN
If your someday is tomorrow.. HOPE
If your someday is today.. CHERISH
A friend of mine gave this to me, and I think its not wrong if i share it with my readers..some may agree with it, some may not.. No matter what it is..lets share it together...;)
Warmest regard.
Have a nice day with someone you love.
Wednesday, August 4, 2010
AKU DAH LEWAT!!!!
Terkejut melihat jam di handphone menunjukkan jam 8 pagi, habis terbang semua doa-doa bangun dari tidur..terus capai tuala dan lari dengan kelajuan 100km/j ke tandas (hehe bikin gempak sikit) Wah!! must reach office before 8.30am. Mak aih, mana mau bersiap lagi.Waduh..baju lagi belum iron..celaru..celaru..(tu la siapa suruh mendelaykan iron baju, padan muka aku)..
Incident pagi tadi memang sangat mem'panik'kan aku..siap mandi, aku sambar ja semua kelengkapan persolekan aku..tidak ketinggalan brooch,ring,bracelet,watch (ni tidak boleh tinggal ni, pelengkap gaya nih..haha) tidak dilupa juga moisturiser(kerja dalam bilik berhawa dingin ni, mesti pakai pelembab tau..sebagai langkah penjagaan..ngeh ngeh ngeh..).. Mesti jaga penampilan coz we're facing many people everyday..and, kena jaga nama company, takkan la nak biar orang cakap staff company tempat kerja aku ni tidak pandai grooming..rosak la reputasi kena cakap macam tu...
Fuh,nasib baik sempat reach office before 8.30 am..bahkan sampai office 8.25am lagi..padahal terjaga pagi tadi jam 8.00am..congak la sendiri berapa minit ja masa aku peruntukkan untuk mandi,berus gigi,basuh muka iron baju,bersiap dan gerak ke office..haha..sampai office,sempat lagi aku pakai lense n touch up sikit muka yang masi basi dengan sisa kemengantukan yang belum di 'fresh'kan..
It's nothing here but this is one of my funny experience through this journey of life.. hahaha and i think i should jot it here untuk dijadikan salah satu kenangan yang akan membuatkan aku tersenyum suatu hari nanti apabila membacanya semula dan mengenangkan pengalaman yang sanggggaaattttt jarang berlaku pada aku.. ;)
The moral of the story..jangan suka snooze alarm..kalau mata dah terjaga awal-awal tu, jangan tidur balik..lagi elok kalau lepas subuh tu tidak tidur..dikhuatiri kalau sambung tidur balik, terlajak pula..kan sendiri jugak yang susah.. ;)
Saturday, July 17, 2010
GOODBYE
and though we'll never forget what we've given up, we owe it to ourselves to keep moving forward.
What we cant do is live our lives - always afraid of the next good bye, because chances are. They're not going to stop..
The tricks is to recognise when a good bye can be a good thing when its a chance to start again...
Friday, July 2, 2010
7 macam pahala yang dapat di nikmati selepas kematian
Dari Anas r.a. berkata bahawa ada tujuh macam pahala yang dapat diterima seseorang itu selepas matinya.
1. Sesiapa yang mendirikan masjid maka ia tetap pahalanya selagi masjid itu digunakan oleh orang untuk beramal ibadat di dalamnya.
2. Sesiapa yang mengalirkan air sungai selagi ada orang yang minum daripadanya.
3. Sesiapa yang menulis mushaf ia akan mendapat pahala selagi ada orang yang membacanya.
4. Orang yang menggali perigi selagi ada orang yang menggunakannya.
5. Sesiapa yang menanam tanam-tanaman selagi ada yang memakannya baik dari manusia atau burung.
6. Mereka yang mengajarkan ilmu yang berguna selama ia diamalkan oleh orang yang mempelajarinya.
7. Orang yang meninggalkan anak yang soleh yang mana ianya selalu mendoakan kedua orang tuanya dan beristighfar baginya
8. yakni anak yang selalu diajari ilmu Al-Qur'an maka orang yang mengajarnya akan mendapat pahala selagi anak itu mengamalkan ajaran-ajarannya tanpa mengurangi pahala anak itu sendiri.
Abu Hurairah r.a. berkata, Rasulullah S.A.W. telah bersabda : "Apabila telah mati anak Adam itu, maka terhentilah amalnya melainkan tiga macam :
1. Sedekah yang berjalan terus (Sedekah Amal Jariah)
2. Ilmu yang berguna dan diamalkan.
3. Anak yang soleh yang mendoakan baik baginya.
lets share this...semoga pahala kita akan terus mengalir bagaikan air yang mengalir selama mana peringatan ini tersebar..amin...
Thursday, June 24, 2010
The rule of engagement are as follows:
1. You can ONLY answer Yes or No!
2. You are NOT ALLOWED to explain ANYTHING unless someone messages or comments you and Asks!
Now, here’s what you’re supposed to do… And please do not spoil the Fun. Copy and paste this into your notes (in my case blog), delete my answers, type in your answers and tag as many of your friends as you’d like to. Then see what happens.
Kissed anyone one of your facebook friends? NO
Been arrested? No
Kissed someone you didn’t like? NO
Slept in until 5 PM? NO
Fallen asleep at work/school? YES
Held a snake? NO
Ran a red light? YES
Been suspended from school? NO
Totaled your car/motorbike in an accident? NO
Been fired from a job? NO
Sang karaoke? YES
Done something or someone you told yourself you wouldn’t? YES
Laughed until something you were drinking came out your nose? NO
Caught a snowflake on your tongue? NO
Kissed in the rain? NO
Sang in the shower? YES
Sat on a rooftop? NO
Been pushed into a pool with your clothes on? NO
Broken a bone? NO
Blacked out from drinking? NO
Played a prank on someone? YES
Felt like killing someone? NO
Made your girlfriend/boyfriend cry? NO
Had Mexican jumping beans for pets? NO
Been in a band? NO
Shot a gun? NO
Tripped on mushrooms? NO
Donated Blood? NO
Eaten alligator meat? NO
Eaten cheesecake? YES
Still love someone you shouldn’t? NO
Think about the future? YES
Believe in love? YES
Sleep on a certain side of the bed? YES
Tuesday, June 22, 2010
PERGINYA SEORANG SAHABAT..
Saturday, June 19, 2010
SEJENAK...
Di hati setiap manusia ada sekelumit rasa cinta, kasih dan sayang pada manusia lain yang hanya perlu dicambah.Lalu menambah makna kehidupan di dunia ini..
Saturday, June 12, 2010
ANSWERING SIMPLE QUESTION
1.Where is your cell phone? next to me
2.Your significant other? erm...
3. Your hair? Black
4 Your mother? Sleeping
5.Your father? Asleep
6. Your favourite place? Home.
7. Your dream last night? Rarely have a dream
8 Your favourite drink? Plain Water
9. Your dream/goal? Lotsa money...hahaha
10. What room you are in? Bedroom
11. Your hobby? Surf internet
12.Your fear? Hell
13.Where do you want to be in 6 years? lepaking at my own house with my love ones n kids..ngeh ngeh ngeh..
14. Where were you last night? Home
15. Something that you aren’t? Clubbing
16. Muffins? with chocolate chips on it..
17. Wish list item? iphone 4g
18. Where you grew up? Putatan
19. Last thing you did? power nap
20. What are you wearing? tshirt n tracksuit
21. Your TV? cant remember..haha
22. Your pet(s)? prefer plant
23. Friends? many
24. Your life? hohoho
25. Your mood? so-so
26. Missing someone? Yes!!so much
27. Car? Kancil
28. Something you’re not wearing? Braces
29.Your favourite store? Nicole & Padini/Vincci
30. Your favourite colour? Blue
31. When is the last time you laughed? Today
32. Last time you cried? Jan 2010
33. Who will resend this? hmmmm
34. One place that I go to over and over? Toilet
35. One person who emails me regularly? FB Notifications..hehehe
56. Another person who emails me regularly? Norman Madde (mostly 4warded emails)
Friday, June 11, 2010
Questions...
1. Lets start it off with, are you single?
Yes
2. If you were paid 1 million dollars to spend the night in a supposed haunted house, would you?
Oh I most definitely will not...hohoho
3. What were you doing at 8:00 AM?
at my friend's house, helping in 'cutting chicken' for his wedding..hahah
4. Have you ever liked someone you didn’t expect to?
Yup.
5. Some people were really destructive as a child, were you?
Nope, I’m a very good girl..hehe ;)
6. Is it possible to be single and happy?
Yeap, I’m a living proof.
7. Are you a jealous person?
erm...sometimes...ngeh ngeh ngeh..
8. What were you doing last night at midnight?
Surfing the net like always.
9. Have you ever been told, you r going to hell?
Nope..
10. How do you feel about your hair right now?
i want to cut it..
11. Do you think you can last in a relationship for six months?
Of course..i'm loyal what??
12. What was the most memorable thing that happened last summer?
errrr.....
13. Do you think that you will be married within ten years?
ughh...i pray for that..
14. Have you ever gone out of your way to do something meaningful?
Can’t say that I do.
15. If you could change your eye colour, would you?
Nope. be grateful for what god gives to me..
16. Do you like to have long hair or short hair?
ermm never try short hair...so,i'll compare later..
17. Do you fall for people easily?
erm..No i think...
18. Are you missing someone right now?
yes!! so much!!
19. How’s your heart lately?
butterfly in my stomach..dont know in my heart..haha
20. Do you think anyone has feelings for you?
I think so, maybe.
21. Were you mad about the way you woke up this morning?
Nope. Why would I?
22. Are you good at hiding your feelings?
Yeap, when I choose to.
23. Last person you laid in bed with?
my sick sister..
24. Have you cried this week at all?
Nope.
25. Where were you at 7:00 this morning?
pls refer to question no.3
26. Are you afraid of falling in love?
Yes actually.
27. Are there some songs you can’t listen to because they remind you of a person?
yes,puteri cinta hati by kristal..ughh..really hate this song at this very moment!!! bcoz it's been given to me by someone who finally cheated on me!! ughhh!!!
28. Are you drunk?
Nope.
29. Last person you texted?
irda sharzalilla
30. You have just sculled a whole bottle of vodka, what are you doing?
vodka? dont even know how it looks like..LOL..haha
31. Who was the last person you talked to before you went to bed last night?
My sick sister..huhu
32. Ever kissed someone who was in a relationship?
Hell no.
33. Have you ever suspected anyone of cheating on you? Yes!!!
34. Have you ever made out with someone who was drunk?
Yay Nope!
35. Do you sleep with or without clothes on?
With my clothes on.
36. Who do you feel most comfortable talking about everything to?
There are 2 person, Normah mammad & Marlina Lading
37. What did you do this past Saturday?
Helping my neighbour in 'kenduri' preparation..
38. How are you feeling?
Feeling just fine.
39. Is there someone you cant stop thinking about?
Yes, but he dont know i'm thinking of him every second..ngeh ngeh ngeh..
40. Will tomorrow be better than today?
hopefully..
41. What do you bite on more, your tongue, or lip?
I think its my tongue.
42. Do you ever curse in front of your parents?
Oh no, I never do that.
43. Has anyone told you they missed you lately?
Yes!!
44. Do you know anyone named matt?
Matt? nope..Mat?yes..
45. Could you go the rest of your life without smoking a cigarette?
Of course I could. I don’t smoke.
46. Ever get so drunk you don’t remember?
Nope!!
47. Are you excited about anything?
Excited about 'him'..ngeh ngeh ngeh..
48. Have you kissed more than ten people this year?
kiss their cheek? 1,2,3...owh..I can count, less than ten..
Sunday, May 23, 2010
10 things that kill motivation..
10 Things That Kill Motivation
grab from cimbnet.com
There is a lot has been written about how to motivate yourself when your motivation is weak. Many of those motivation techniques are great, but in order to make them effective, let's take a look at 10 things that kill motivation in order to figure out what cause motivation to die in the first place.
1. No Goals
Without goals, you really don't need motivation. What in the world would you do with it? Run around in circles? Many people complain about not being motivated to do anything. The majority of the time, it's because they don't have any goals that excite them enough to do anything.
2. Failure
This is a big one. When we set out to achieve something and things don't go as planned, we feel this thing we called failure. It could specifically be feelings like disappointment, embrrassement, or overwhelm. Knowing what to do when this happen to get your motivation back is critical.
3. Negative People
One comment of discouragement is often enough to kill any motivation some people may have. People constantly make negative comments directed towards you should be avoided if you want to maintain your motivation.
4. Negative News
Bad news sells. If you focus too much on the bad things that are happening in this world, that may suck the motivation right out of you. No matter how good things are, the media will always have something bad to report. Try to focus on what's good instead.
5. Low Energy
Being fit plays a big role in your motivation. When you barely have enough energy to move around and do stuff, your motivation will suffer greatly. A good diet and exercise regimen will help with that.
6. Distractions
Distraction can come from anywhere. These are things that tend to throw our focus off course. If you stay off course for too long, your motivation will deteriorate.
7. Not Taking Action
When you don't take action towards your goals, your motivation will die off fast. Often times, people will sets a goal, make all these plans and then wait for the right time to start. Times like the first of the month, after the holidays, New years, when summer starts. etc. Once you have a goal, you must take action right away, even if it's on a Tuesday.
8. Lack of Belief in Yourself
You could be inspired and motivated by a book you read or a movie you see to go out there and make your dreams a reality, but if you don't believe you can pull it off, you will eventually stop. You must truly believe you can achieve your goals, otherwise you'll soon start doubting yourself and when you do, kiss you motivation good bye.
9. Boredom
There will be goals that require you to take repetitive actions that may slowly kill off your motivation. If you find running to be extremely uninteresting to you and your goal is to lose weight, that's a formula for failure. Change up your strategy if necessary and where possible, hire someone else to do certain mundane tasks for you.
10. Lack of Support
Often when we feel like no one is behind us, during the tough times, our motivation will fade. Having people who will encourage you is a great motivation booster. They can also help to increase believe in yourself.
By coming aware of these 10 things that kill motivation, you can better prepare yourself to deal with these ahead of time, or when they occur, in order to keep your motivation alive. Being able to keep your motivation up will eventually lead to achieving your goals.
Friday, May 14, 2010
kosong....
harini cuti..heheh actly aku je cuti..aku cuti 3 hari coz suppose aku kena jaga akak aku di SMC coz akak br saja menjalani pembedahan, long story n make it short, akhirnya mak aku yang jaga n aku menjadi suri rumah sepenuh masa mengurus hal ehwal rumah encik mohd salleh..
sunyi...sunyi rasanya coz anak buah kesyangan aku kena kidnap ke rumah nenek dia side abg ipar aku..keluangan yang ada ini,aku pun menekan punat2 di keyboard utk mengisi kekosongan entri blogku yang dah berkurun aku biarkan(kalo lalang ni confirm udah setinggi anak buah aku)...hehe
ceh, intro panjang lebar tapi belum nampak lagi point2 penting yang ingin disampaikan.. mmg tiada pun sebnarnya point penting, saja buang tebiat,buang masa,buang karan..hahaha
okeh, serius....erm.. few weeks ni aku byk berfikir dari biasa..terlalu banyak perkara berlaku di kelilingku dan membuka mataku dan membuatkan aku lebih berfikir dan menyedari kebesaran allah...byk pekara2 best tapi lagi banyak yang tidak bestnya..
perlukah aku critakan dengan detail apa yang best dan apa yang tidak best tu?hmm lain kali la...i'm not ready yet to tell all of my privacy...reveal sikit2 saja la dulu...cukuplah apa yang aku boleh katakan, perkara2 itu telah membuatkan aku semakin merasa diriku benar2 kerdil...dan membuatkan aku lebih bersyukur pada allah...
ya allah, bimbinglah dan peliharalah aku selalu ya allah...sesungguhnya imanku yang setipis kulit bwg ini sering terhasut dengan godaan2 syaitan,ya allah..bantulah aku untuk membersihkan noda2 hitam di hatiku ya allah...bantulah aku untuk mengekalkan kesucian dan keluhuran hatiku ya allah...sesungguhnya hanya engkau yang maha berkuasa ya allah...tiada kuasa selainmu...